The world we live in is loud and noisy. Seldom, during our hectic days do we have the opportunity to hear “silence” or be “silent” The noise outside, causing these distractions, may be from the traffic moving, cars honking their horns, even dogs barking.
This may seem like a simple question to answer, but the fact is, that it can be somewhat complicated. There are so many variances that play a significant role, as well as different theories.
While we seem to think that we may be hard-wired in some way; that would explain to us that our behavior patterns may be pre-determined by the nature of who we are, or by our DNA.
Conflicts can be triggered at most any time and for the most insignificant reasons. Unfortunately, we can’t always choose the time or the place they arrive. Conflicts can happen in the workplace or at home, and with family, friends or with any personal relationship.
The sound that presses through your lips called “words” carries such power. Your words spoken are more than just elements of speech; they are active vibrations, coming from your voice box that transmits a powerful energy force. Those words are consumed and absorbed by others.
Wisdom is gained from the experiences you have encountered through challenges in your life. It’s wisdom that transforms your illusions into truth, and can influence your life choices. It’s an epiphany that shifts your consciousness to instant awareness and knowing.
Integrity is when your thoughts, your words, and your actions are all aligned. It’s also about doing the right thing, even when no one is watching. It’s when you live and behave congruently with strong core values. A quality that comes from the inside yet shines on the outside.
“Attentive Silence” is an attitude as well as a state of mind that requires self-discipline as well as patience. It’s a conscious decision to be in silence, listen, and hear what the other person is saying. It also demonstrates thoughtfulness and consideration at the same time, allowing you to uncover the real message of what’s being spoken.
There is creative energy in your mind that can help you break out of mundane thinking habits in your life; as you know it. As humans, we all have this prodigious energy within our minds, so often untapped. It’s there, however; the energy lies dormant, as we are so often consumed with everyday rituals and activities.
A friendship is a special bond between people who enjoy and support one another on all levels. No doubt, there is great value in true friendship. Friendships bring an awareness of empathy and kindness. It teaches you to share and to listen.
“Imperfection” What is it? Most of us would say that is someone or something that has flaws, defects, or perhaps faults. Someone or something that is less than perfect. But by whose standards are these imperfections defined by? Steve Maraboli describes it best.
